The Best Bars in Philadelphia for a First Date
First dates can be nerve-wracking. You’re putting yourself out there, hoping to make a great impression while trying to figure out if there’s a connection. There’s the pressure of choosing the right place, making interesting conversation, and navigating potential awkward moments. We’re gonna take at least one of those things off your plate – we’ve rounded up the best bars in Philadelphia for a first date, so you can focus on getting to know each other without stressing about the venue. We’ve got the logistics—you bring the charm.
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Enswell
Located in Center City, Enswell offers a modern, intimate vibe perfect for a cozy first date. Known for its creative cocktails and small plates, it’s the kind of place where the ambiance does half the talking. Plus, the lighting is great for that flattering first impression.
Why it’s great: Quiet enough for meaningful conversation, with drinks impressive enough to inspire compliments.
Poison Heart
For those who love a bit of edge, Poison Heart in Spring Arts is the perfect mix of gritty and chic. With a darkly romantic punk rock aesthetic and a killer cocktail selection, it’s great for breaking the ice over a dimly lit oyster spread—or skipping the small talk and getting real.
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Why it’s great: The vibe is cool without trying too hard, and the eclectic crowd means there’s always something interesting to talk about.
Next of Kin
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If your date loves craft cocktails – both those classics and those fresh takes – Next of Kin in Fishtown is a must. The chic interiors and thoughtfully curated drink menu set the stage for a classy yet approachable night out. Bonus: the bartenders here know their stuff and can recommend the perfect drink to match your mood.
Why it’s great: It’s upscale without being pretentious, making it a solid choice for first-date jitters.
Charlie Was A Sinner
Want to impress with a touch of sophistication? Charlie Was A Sinner in Midtown Village is a sleek vegan cocktail bar that feels effortlessly romantic. With dim lighting and an innovative vegan menu that appeals to herbivores and carnivores, it’s a surefire way to set the mood.
Why it’s great: Whether your date’s vegan or just adventurous, the menu is a conversation starter.
Four Humours
Tucked away in Philly, Four Humours is all about low-key charm. Walking into this neighborhood bar/distillery feels like you’re walking into the belly of a bourbon barrel. Needless to say they serve up a stellar lineup of whiskeys and bourbons and a curated selection of cocktails. It’s perfect if you’re looking for a laid-back spot with an inviting vibe.
Why it’s great: It’s casual yet thoughtful—a great way to show you’re down-to-earth.
And if the sparks are flying, check out our article on Open Streets: The Festive Philadelphia Takeover Returns This December for more fun, holiday-inspired date ideas!
